So our thoughts always turn to love and romance and being a bit sentimental at this time of year. All the movies seem to be about love or finding love at Christmas. Well, even if you’re not with someone you can still enjoy feeling special. Do you remember when you were last in love? How you felt good in your skin? Remember how desirable you felt. Remember that amazing feeling of knowing someone was thinking about you and would go out of their way to please you.

If you have never been in love then just imagine how that would feel. Well, take those feelings and embrace them. Close your eyes and feel those feelings from the crown of your head, spreading through your body to the tips of your fingers right down to the soles of your feet. Begin walking with a spring in your step. Spray on a new cologne, something light, maybe floral, something classy, like you. When you smile feel that new charisma that is beginning to flow from you.

Know that your eyes sparkle with that certain something. Feel comfortable in this place of confidence and happiness. Now go out and face your day and walk as though you’re hearing your favourite song. Now lets take a look at what you’re putting into your body. Is there anything you need to change nutrition wise? Do you need to detox your body? Perhaps a couple days doing that would be just what the Dr ordered. Then we can get those endorphins racing through your body and feeling good.

Flirting is simply communicating in a way that let’s someone know you’re interested in the possibility of dating. Keep your approach casual and relaxed. Use their name, it’s very charming to have someone address you by your name. It sounds very simple but there’s a big difference in simply saying “good morning” to saying “good morning Marie”. A nice compliment given with eye contact and a soft smile is good. Ladies, give a guy permission to talk to you.